Vintage Yellow Topaz
Rejecting a family heirloom?
My boyfriend's sister gave us the engagement ring of her grandmother. I knew nothing about the ring so they were curious. I had already shown a picture of what I wanted, but we realized it could not hurt to check. I'm very honored that her sister would give me a ring delivered to her, and I love to honor his family who wears it. Unfortunately, there is nothing in my style or taste. This is a vintage yellow gold, 6-band weak points dark topaz stone that is 1ct. I had my heart set on a 3 topaz eternity ring white gold stone. The ring he chose is not expensive, not more than $ 350 so I'm not trying to empress anyone. It's just beautiful and what I want. They also have long fingers and larger stones to compliment my hands. The ring of her grandmother would like the ring of a child in me. Also, do not wear yellow gold. What can I do? Turn down or just taken and bear it? Note: His first wife never offered a family heirloom.
Well, anything that makes him look selfish if you do not accept it. Personally, I would tell her sister not to could accept a piece of personal jewelry, which must remain in the immediate family, and that means that she or her boyfriend daughter.Hopefully not feel hurt. Or you could accept it and wear it as a pendant on a chain around his neck, or have been remodeled as a brooch. I take his message means that would be her engagement ring. I think should have what you want. However, if money is scarce, would be a good temporary solution. Wait a while, yellow gold will be popular again!
